平成22年2月10日水曜日

Long Distance Relationship

My room mate left me for the fun and exciting level 4 (I stay at the quiet and boring level 5 btw). It's kind of sad because I am now alone in my room. But I guess it's okay... a new one will come. She's not the perfect room mate... but she was a very nice girl to chat with. I really love chatting with her. But all her friends are at level 4 and she has to come back to level 5 by 1am. because they will lock the level's door at 1am and the administrator (Dejurnaya) can be quite fierce sometimes. She likes to smoke and chat with her friends at the level 4 living room till very very very late... I think she might have felt that she will disturb me in the middle of the night, but actually I'm okay with it... so there she goes. Ciao!

Anyway... Some updates:
Last night... I chatted with this guy from Russia. He stays in the dorm (his room is next next door to mine), but he doesn't belong to our school and he was a seamen. I LAUGHED SUPER HARD WHEN HE SAID THAT. Semen.... seamen. Okay anyway he's a very friendly guy so talking to him was comfortable.

Today I had my first Russian lesson. It's SUPER TIRING. It's seriously information overload. Because I belong to the zero level, we have to learn everything from scratch, like a baby. IT'S REALLY TIRING. FYI, my class only have 2 people... renee and me. After that I went for international marketing class, it was super slack. Then I went for the bravest thing I have ever done... I went to dance class with the Russians. OMG I DIDN'T KNOW IT WAS BALLET! I thought it was just normal modern dance class. It's super embarrassing because their posture's all so nice and mine is like shit. But I think I will continue the class... I wanna walk with a nice posture!

OKay... so about the title of today's post... I have a few dorm-mates here whose boyfriends and girlfriends are back at their hometown. Before I start my rattling, here are some beliefs I hold. I believe that long distance relationship (LDR) can work if there is plenty of communication. Some people can do it, some just can't.

After some chats and stuffs like these, I feel that LDR is really tough! Just by hearing stuffs, is enough to make my beliefs change. I heard from this girl from holland, she told me that she wants to chat with her boyfriend face to face and not just through messaging but she can't .. her boyfriend is always in some circumstances where video chatting is not possible. It's not that she doesn't understand her bf's situation, it's just that she really hope that he could be the one who will listen to her stuffs first hand and she really missed her bf alot. So I told her, you can always talk to me, i can act as your boyfriend. But she told me the feeling is different (in a very serious tone although I was just kidding).

Then another guy told me another thing... he told me that it's not that he doesn't trust his gf, but lately his friends has been telling him some havoc stories about what his gf has done and he really is not in the mood to socialize or anything. I feel tired and tough for both of them. I think the only person who managed to survive this is my sis and xs. The rest all gone case. I wonder if I ever experience LDR, will it last?



TBC...

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